tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79961619839596992782024-03-21T06:42:20.537-05:00Counting My BlessingsAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.comBlogger91125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-87824796545981356442016-12-15T13:25:00.002-06:002016-12-15T13:25:43.112-06:00Starry-Eyed by Mandy Arioto - an inspriational read!The book <i>Starry-Eyed</i> by Mandy Arioto is a collection of essays about motherhood, friendship, relationships, and loving and seeing God through it all. It's almost like a less sappy version of Chicken Soup for the Soul. Arioto is the President of MOPS (Mothers of Preschoolers) International. She shares her experiences raising children as well as her experiences with many other moms to bring this love filled, life filled book to her readers. The essays include topics such as finding light in the dark times, finding courage and strength in friends, going back to nature, and teaching our kids to hear God. It is difficult for me to describe exactly what you will encounter in her book. Each essay brought different thoughts to mind for me and I am sure each would be a different experience for others depending on what they have gone through. Personally, reading about friendship and drawing strength from it made me realize why I often feel so weak. I don't have a lot of friends and it's important for me to be around friends and get that strength and courage back. The essay that really hit a strong point for me was finding the light in dark times. I have been through a lot of dark times myself and this essay really pinpointed how important it is to look for that light, that glimmer of hope, in every dark time that you go through. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel. I highly recommend this book to any mom out there who is looking for some inspiration to get through the day-to-day grind of motherhood, relationships, and life.<br />
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I received a complimentary copy of this book from <a href="http://booklookbloggers.com">The BookLook Bloggers</a> program in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-41395839291550019532016-09-23T08:52:00.003-05:002016-09-23T08:52:48.353-05:00An instant pick-me-up with Think Happy!!When I picked up <i>Think Happy: instant peptalks to boost positivity</i> by Karen Salmansohn, I felt happier just looking at the cover! The cover of this book is bright and colorful. It reminds me of rays of sunlight mixed with the colors of a rainbow. Every page of this book is filled with bold colors. There are several sections to the book that give peptalks of positive things to say. Some examples are "5 positive things to say when trying something new," "5 things to say when dealing with major challenges," and "5 things to say when dealing with toxic people". After reading one of my favorites in the toxic people chapter, I posted the quote on Facebook and my friends LOVED it! (I'll let you check out the book to discover what you think my favorite quote in that chapter was.) Not only does each chapter have a quote, but it has some tips that are based on that quote. This book can be used for personal use as well as professional use as a counselor. I know it helped me personally to read some of these affirmations, but I also know that some of these affirmations could also help people that I talk to that are dealing with crisis, depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and many other issues in their lives. I am quite intrigued by this book and I'm interested in checking out some more of Karen Salmansohn's work. I have even followed her page on Facebook. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is trying to increase the positivity in their life or someone else's life!<br />
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Christa Black Gifford has been through a lot of trauma in her life. She suffered sexual abuse as a child, rape as a young adult, addiction, an eating disorder, and the loss of her infant daughter. Through it all, Christa has had to heal from these hurts. In this book, Gifford tackles these issues head on, exploring how she opened up her heart and let God in so her heart could be healed. Gifford explains what she went through and applies it to scripture. She shares her journey so that others can experience the healing of their hearts that comes through Christ.<br />
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Christa shares that trauma of the heart is not just the major trauma like abuse and death. Trauma can also be rejection, bullying, disease, and so many other things that can put scars on our hearts. Gifford's book encouraged me to open my heart to God, let him see my wounds, and let him heal these wounds. I especially liked the Open-Heart Surgery questions at the end of each chapter. They allowed me to delve more deeply into what was discussed and encouraged me to see what my heart was feeling and deepen my relationship with Christ. I recommend this book to anyone because we have all suffered some pain to our hearts and so much of it is still unhealed. <br />
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<i>I received this book for free from the BookLook Bloggers program in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-29831486102669629472016-07-18T11:49:00.002-05:002016-07-18T11:49:59.826-05:00Review of Grace by Max Lucado<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://booksneeze.com/art/_140_245_Book.699.cover.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear:left; float:left;margin-right:1em; margin-bottom:1em"><img border="0" height="201" width="140" src="http://booksneeze.com/art/_140_245_Book.699.cover.jpg" /></a></div><br />
Max Lucado's Grace: More Than We Deserve, Greater Than We Imagine, is a book for Christians who seek to further understand what it means to experience God's grace in their lives as well as for non-Christians who do not yet understand how God has blessed us and saved us.<br />
I have read quite a few of Max Lucado's books, but this one is by far my favorite. In his best-selling style, Lucado provides many examples of God's grace. He talks about how grace was shown in the Bible, in many examples of Old and New Testament scripture. He illustrates how these examples can apply to our own lives and how they have applied to the lives of people he knows or people in history. All of these examples serve to further illustrate something that is often hard for us to understand. Even though we are fallible, sinful, human beings, God has given us His Grace. He loves us so much, that He DIED for us. That is the grace he bestows upon each and every one of us. So if you are ever thinking that God does not show His grace in your life, read this book and remember - God so loved the world that He gave his one and only Son! <br />
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<i>I receive these books free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-41817718647093992942016-07-11T08:30:00.002-05:002016-07-11T08:30:07.897-05:00Review of Six Hours One Friday by Max LucadoThis post was originally posted on 01/31/13.<br />
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In <i>Six Hours One Friday</i>, Max Lucado explores Jesus' death and resurrection in a new way. Lucado retells some of the Bible stories we have heard over and over again with a new point of view. Jesus' death from the centurion's point of view, from the thief that hung on the cross next to him, from Mary Magdalene's point of view. Lucado's beautiful storytelling helps to illustrate how much Jesus' death meant and still means to us. Lucado also tells some other Bible stories such as Zaccheus, the adulteress that was almost stoned, and the Samaritan woman at the well. These are all people that were touched by Jesus' life. Lucado makes three key points, stating that Jesus' death and resurrection is our anchor in these three ways. Our lives are not futile. Our failures aren't fatal. Our deaths are not final. We live for Jesus, so our lives are not futile. They are not for nothing. Our failures aren't fatal. God will forgive us. Our deaths are not final. Jesus died for us so death does not have to be the end. This book really brings home why Jesus died for us and what it achieved. Though it is not my favorite Lucado book, it was a good read.<br><br />
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<i>I receive these books free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookLookBloggers.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-15290298745320094652016-07-09T09:50:00.000-05:002016-07-09T10:06:02.059-05:00What It's Like to be a Highly Sensitive Person with DepressionWhen I first identified some characteristics about myself that made me more sensitive to other's emotions, one of my friends told me I was an empath. What is an empath? Google identifies an empath as "a person with the paranormal ability to apprehend the mental or emotional state of another individual." I'm "paranormal"? I don't think of myself this way. Maybe I'm more of a "highly sensitive" person. <a href="http://http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/02/26/highly-sensitive-people-signs-habits_n_4810794.html">This article</a> from the Huffington Post identifies the characteristics of a highly sensitive person and sounds just like me. <br />
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These characteristics, in my mind, are what make me a great fit for the counseling profession. Many of the counselors and counseling students that I have met throughout my schooling have some of these characteristics as well. But how does I deal with feelings more deeply, being more emotionally reactive, and picking up emotional "vibes" from others when also trying to fight back the monster of depression? How do I separate my feelings from the feelings of others? How do I determine if it's my depression that is laying a weight on my soul or the depression of others?<br />
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For me, it has been about getting to know myself better. I have to do a lot of looking into myself, reflecting, meditating, and realizing what is coming from me and what is coming from someone else. This means that at times I have to separate myself from others. The support from my husband and his realization about my sensitivity helps as well. The recent events surrounding the Black Lives Matter movement and the shooting of police officers in Dallas has the internet reeling with negativity, anxiety, and tension. As a highly sensitive person, I found myself wrapped up in these feelings very quickly. I was pulled into arguments and discussions with people that really should not have mattered to me, people that are not a part of my life, that I would not be associating with at all if it weren't for Facebook. I started to talk to my husband about this negativity. His immediate reaction? <br />
"You need to get off of Facebook."<br />
So I did. But not for long. As a highly sensitive person, it's also hard for me to stay away. Not only do I feel more deeply, I sense others' pain and I want to do something about it. In these past few days, however, I have come to a realization. As a highly sensitive person, I need to remember that I am the most important person in my life. I need to focus on me and what makes me healthy first. I can't make anyone feel anything that they don't want to feel. If I let myself get wrapped up in the negativity and anxiety, that can turn into a depression trigger.<br />
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If you're like me and you get wrapped up in others' emotions, remember that it's ok to take a break. Take care of yourself. You deserve it.<br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-39378948423477293572016-07-08T08:16:00.001-05:002016-07-08T08:16:11.690-05:00A Review of "Unglued Devotional" by Lysa TerkeurstThis is a blog post I have moved over from my former blog from several years ago. This was originally posted on 02/17/13.<br />
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"Unglued Devotional" is a companion devotional to the book "Unglued" by Lysa Terkeurst. Maybe I would have liked this devotional better if I had read the book that it is companion to. I started reading this and my immediate thought was, "What is the point?" Where was the continuity within in it? It seemed to just jump from place to place and it didn't really seem that there was a clear topic for each day's devotional. Apparently, it's supposed to be about emotions and when you come unglued. Maybe that is why it didn't really "speak" to me. I don't often come unglued, at least anger wise or where I may hurt other people. Sometimes I get sad, but I would never think of myself as exploding. My recommendation is that if you do want to pick up this devotional, that you also read the companion book. Maybe this would have made more sense to me if I had read its companion book. I am starting to learn that I don't really like devotionals. When I read a book I like to be able to read as much as I want at once instead of just a few pages a day.<br><br />
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<i>I receive these books free from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”</i>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-87062969296752010892016-07-01T13:35:00.001-05:002016-07-01T13:35:19.190-05:00Hope in Times of DespairAs a person who experiences occasional bouts of depression, I can sometimes struggle with the day-to-day. Sometimes, even just the bickering between my children, the messes they make, or the physical pains that I am going through can be too much for me. I just want to give up, crawl into bed, and sleep. But I know that my children depend on me so I must press on. <br />
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How do I find that strength to press on? I've tried so many things. I've tried talking to my friends, but the only friends I seem to have are on Facebook and this just tends to isolate me even more. I try to get out of the house and do something without my kids, but that's not always easy to do. My husband works so hard at his job that when he comes home he just wants to sleep. He doesn't want to go out. Finding a sitter is not always easy either.<br />
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Besides, these are just temporary fixes. What works for me every time? Turning to God.<br />
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In his book <i>Transform Your Thinking, Transform Your Life</i>, Dr. Bill Winston reminds us that our thinking will be transformed when we continually read the Word and fill our minds with God's Word. So when I am feeling down, I remember to do this. I read the Bible. I read books like Dr. Winston's book. I attend church services to fill my mind with God's Word. And I am comforted.<br />
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A friend of mine recently gave me the book God's Promises for Graduates as I was struggling through some tough times. I'd like to share a few of the verses with you that have brought me comfort lately.<br />
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I have a decoration in my home that includes the beginning part of this verse, so I always try to have it in my mind.<br />
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways submit to him and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6<br />
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"Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken." Psalms 55:22<br />
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There are by far more where those come from, but I find that when I couple these verses with positive thinking, exercise, and a good night's sleep, I feel much better and I am able to move forward. Depression does try to press on sometimes, but the more I am in the Word, the more I am able to get through it.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-57654177434158802542016-06-12T12:32:00.001-05:002016-06-12T12:39:40.057-05:00VIP Very Influential Person: How to Influence with Vision, Integrity, and Purpose (A Review)<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCKwsTip0m1cwF3C7iv8WfQyx1PPWumWyvpnL6Wae0XhZr4TTGDY2vvRcb5b-B87fDOhiWnVhxh_tkhb-RMjx9L8152GXikzhQnfU7dUe5GkEwXYNTAtxmdIdp1wU4YOZrDpgGXwaKHic/s1600/_240_360_Book.1837.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjCKwsTip0m1cwF3C7iv8WfQyx1PPWumWyvpnL6Wae0XhZr4TTGDY2vvRcb5b-B87fDOhiWnVhxh_tkhb-RMjx9L8152GXikzhQnfU7dUe5GkEwXYNTAtxmdIdp1wU4YOZrDpgGXwaKHic/s400/_240_360_Book.1837.jpg" /></a></div><br />
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VIP. When we read that abbreviation, we all think the same thing "Very Important Person". In a world where success is often determined by how "important" you are, how much money you make, and how many people know your name, the book <i>VIP Very Influential Person: How to Influence with Vision, Integrity, and Purpose</i> by O.S. Hawkins gives an entirely different perspective on the meaning of VIP. For Hawkins, VIP stands for Very Influential Person, and in this book he outlines how to be a person of influence. Becoming a person of influence means having a Vision. This means knowing what you want to accomplish. This can be a "mission statement" for your life or for your company if you are a business owner. Next, Integrity is an important part of being an influential person. People need to know that you are who you say you are and you're going to do what you say you're going to do. Finally, Purpose is a vital part of being a VIP. What does purpose mean? It means that you look to God to find the reason that you are here and that everything you do aims towards that purpose in your life. <br />
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Though it was a "dry" read for me at times, I think that was because I have heard messages like this before and they have been spoken. To me, a spoken word is so much more powerful. I'd love to have the chance to listen to O.S. Hawkins deliver these words in person. <br />
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Thinking on this book is part of what made me decide to change things up on my blog a bit. I want to write about mental health because that is my purpose. I want to share your stories and be of support to the bigger community. So, if you want to be a part of this, send me a message with your story!<br />
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RisaAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-90476865978971562752016-05-02T14:51:00.000-05:002016-05-02T14:51:11.313-05:00How to Live In Fear: Mastering the Art of Freaking Out (Review)I received this book for free from Thomas Nelson Publishers and the <a href="http://booklookbloggers.com">BookLook Bloggers Program</a>in exchange for my honest review.<br />
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The title of this book piqued my interest. As a new counseling professional, I am interested in reading books about mental health. When I read on and discovered that this book was about a pastor's struggle with a severe anxiety disorder, I knew I had to check it out. Pastor Lance Hahn has struggled with a severe anxiety disorder since childhood. Through this book, he talks about his struggle, what it means to be a Christian with an anxiety disorder, practical steps to help cope with anxiety through practical solutions such as medication, exercise, thought restructuring, and even maintaining a health diet to exploring scripture and what it says about worry. It's a misconception that people who struggle with mental health issues aren't strong in their faith, but Lance Hahn proves this wrong as he speaks about his struggle and how his faith has been made stronger throughout this struggle. Hahn makes sure to stress that he is not a mental health professional and anyone who is struggling should seek professional help while working through the practical solutions that he has found to be helpful as someone struggling with these issues. I highly recommend this book and I will keep it on my shelf to share with clients that may be struggling with these questions as well.<br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-9574850148789817122016-04-04T13:15:00.001-05:002016-04-04T13:15:33.484-05:00Lessons I've Learned from CounselingBefore I decided to become a mental health counselor, I myself had undergone counseling on a couple of different occasions. First, as a child. I had a bit of trouble making friends and my parents took me to a counselor. Years later, as a young adult, I saw a counselor to help me with depression. I no longer see a counselor, though sometimes I think that it may be a good thing to do once in a while. I am able to manage depression myself using what I have learned from counseling along with my much stronger faith in God and prayer. Here are some things I learned from counseling.<br />
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- Every little thing that goes wrong is not the end of the world. Learn to choose your battles, when to let things go, and how to deal with the disappointments in life and you will be a lot happier. It's not always easy. It takes time. It's worth it.<br />
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- Complaining just bums you out more than anything. Stop complaining and do something about it!<br />
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- Good counselors are not there to give advice or tell you the answer. Good counselors will guide you to find it for yourself.<br />
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- Good counselors do not accuse you or blame you for all of your problems. <br />
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- The right counselor can help to empower you, strengthen your resolve, and provide you with tools to help you move on. <br />
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It's interesting to be on the other side of the couch, so to speak. But here I am. I'm waiting for the right opportunity to come along and meanwhile I'm continuing to learn all that I can so that I can be an effective counselor in the future.<br />
Thank you for sharing my journey!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-46376063221046098052016-03-28T15:49:00.001-05:002016-03-28T15:49:38.084-05:00Review: The Case for Hope by Lee StrobelI received this book from the <a href="http://booklookbloggers.com">BookLook Bloggers Program</a> for free in exchange for my honest review.<br />
It's taken me a while to write this review. I received this book before Christmas, got caught up in all the holidays, was working hard on my internship and finishing up school, and before I knew it my 3 months that I had to write the review had expired! Luckily, BookLook Bloggers knew I was good for my review and started my account back up again so I could post it. So, without further ado, here it is!<br />
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<i>The Case for Hope</i> by Lee Strobel explores the question, "Where can we find hope in a hopeless world?" These days, when we hear the hate spouted from the mouths of politicians, see the news of terrorist attacks across the world and even violence, homelessness, and heartache in our own city streets, it can be hard for some to find that hope. Some turn to other things for hope, but not of them can sustain them for long. Lee Strobel explores the Biblical basis for the case that our hope should be in The Lord. Strobel explores the hope of what Jesus did for us, dying on the cross and sacrificing himself so that we might live. He also relates many stories of people in his life who turned to Christ in their hour of need and found hope in the Lord. I highly recommended this book to anyone who is in doubt, from Christians who are having so much doubt that they are having trouble studying the Bible for the verses that may bring them hope to someone who has not even found Christ and needs somewhere to turn for direction. At the end of the book, Strobel offers a 30 Day Journey of Hope with a Bible verse to study each day to remember the hope that is in the Lord. This is a great book to anyone who wants to "look ahead with confidence and courage." The most profound thought that Strobel shares and that I took away from this book is the thought that we should take this hope out to the world. God died for all of us and this should be shared with everyone.<br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-58561956087588664822016-03-14T12:31:00.003-05:002016-03-14T12:31:58.761-05:00Say Something!This time of year, just a little over a week before Easter, 15 years ago, I was at the lowest point in my life. I had always been a little “down in the dumps” from time to time. I was sort of a pessimist. I complained a lot, didn't have many friends, and just kept to myself most of the time. I had someone I loved in my life, but we were in a long distance relationship. I was also away from my parents and I had started to push away the few friends that I had with my isolating behaviors.<br />
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It's been said that one of the first things to be affected in depression is one's perception. With me, this was absolutely true. I felt like my life was spiraling downward and out of control, but things were actually ok! I was doing well in college, getting good grades. I had a couple of great friends and I had a boyfriend and parents that loved me, even though they were miles away. So why did I feel so awful? I couldn't put my finger on it. I didn't know how to define it. <br />
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Until one day, my practicum supervisor (I was studying to be a teacher) pulled me aside after class. She wanted to speak to me privately. She asked me how my practicum was going. I lied and told her it was going fine when truly I felt that I couldn't handle it and I could barely drag myself to get out of bed every day. She asked me how I was feeling. I said fine even though I had been to the doctor recently trying to find out why I was so tired all the time. She looked, her eyes full of concern, and said, “It just seems to me that you are very very depressed.” That was the word. That was it. The truth hit. I began to cry, at first just a little, and then sobbing almost uncontrollably. She gave me some information about the student health center and help me set up an appointment to go see a counselor there. <br />
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I can't remember the name of that professor, but that first step; her ability to recognize the signs in me that I was denying in myself, set me on the path to recovery. If it weren't for that professor, I don't know if I would be here today. I hope that somewhere out there in internet land, this reaches her as a thank you. But even if it doesn't, I want her to know that I am thankful for what she did and said. You never know how your words may influence another. For me, her words set me on a path to recovery and eventually led me down the road to become a professional counselor. I encourage everyone to educate yourself on the signs and symptoms of mental illness if you are concerned about a friend or a loved one. Let them know you are concerned. Sometimes it just takes a few words to change someone's life forever.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-72489444474297910722016-03-01T15:59:00.001-06:002016-03-01T16:02:58.047-06:00The Word of Promise New Testament (Audiobook) - A ReviewI received this book for free from the BookLook Bloggers program in exchange for an honest review. My opinions are my own.<br />
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I thought it would be a nice change of pace to review something different, an Audiobook! This is a review of an audio version of the New King James Version New Testament published by Thomas Nelson Publishers. <i>The Word of Promise</i> is presented in "dramatic audio theater" and stars Jim Caviezel, the actor that played Jesus in Mel Gibson's <i>Passion of the Christ</i>, as Jesus. Other famous voices include Terence Stamp (General Zod in the old Superman movies, and more recently the YES Guru in Jim Carrey's Yes Man!) as the voice of God and Kimberly Williams-Paisley (Brad Paisley's wife and star of the Father of the Bride movies) as the voice of Mary, Mother of Jesus. <br />
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I have to admit that I am not used to listening to the Bible, or audiobooks in general. I started listening half-expecting to be hearing biblical passages read and recited like they are in church. So, the drama of it threw me off a bit at first. But after a few minutes, I was pulled in. I was wondering how Jim Caviezel was going to present the voice of Jesus when he became angry, turning over the tables in the temple. I was wondering how Mary's voice would sound when she was morning the loss of her son. I was drawn in and I found that this was a new and different way to "read" the New Testament. It may be a great way to present the New Testament to children, who may have trouble reading the words presented in the Bible or have trouble paying attention. Listening to the Bible may be a great activity for families. They can listen to a passage and then talk about what happened, learning about Jesus as they go. I also gave an audio Bible as a gift to my mother-in-law, who would need a very large print Bible in order to read it and would probably have trouble turning pages. An audio Bible is a great tool for her and she was very happy to have one. This is a great presentation of the Bible with big name voice actors to boot! I recommend it!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-7675486393726905852015-11-24T16:54:00.000-06:002015-11-24T16:54:17.419-06:00Book Review: Coming Clean by Seth HainesYou may have noticed that I haven't posted on the blog in about two months. I have been quite busy in my second internship at a treatment center for co-occurring substance use and mental health disorders. It's occupied 20+ hours of my week each week, the rest being occupied by my family. <br />
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As you may know, I have been receiving books for free from <a href="http://booklookbloggers.com">Book Look Bloggers</a>in exchange for my honest review for several years now.<br />
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When I had an opportunity to review a book written by a Christian author about his journey to sobriety, I thought this was an excellent opportunity for me. I could not only learn more about what it means for someone to struggle with addiction, but I could learn more about it through the eyes of a Christian, another believer. My hopes had been that I could teach from this book in one of my groups, but alas the group that it would have been appropriate for has been in the hands of one person for so long that he pretty much "owns" that group. But anyway, on to my review.<br />
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In this book, Seth Haines journals about his first 90 days of sobriety. Not only that, but he "comes clean" about so many things; his dwindling faith in God, his difficulty forgiving others, his disagreements and wrestling with God, and so much more. I personally have not struggled with addiction. I have, however, had trials and tribulations in my life. Who hasn't? I have asked God to heal myself, to heal other people, to take away poverty, pain, hopelessness, depression, the list goes on. I often feel like my prayers are unanswered. Seth Haines' words give me hope. God answers all our prayers, maybe just not in the way we would like. We are often looking for some supernatural healing of sickness, pain, suffering, etc. But God doesn't always bring it that way. God has His plan and we, as finite beings, can never really understand what that is. Another insight gained from Haines' book is that of forgiveness. There are a few people in my life that I have forgiven. It doesn't change much for me except that there is no longer hatred in my heart that affects my beliefs or how I live my life. I have let those hurts go and they no longer affect me. Forgiveness is a hard concept for a lot of us, but for Haines' it reached even deeper as he was forgiving people that he didn't even really know, people that had affected his childlike faith. Without spoiling the book, let me just say that Haines' words are poignant, heartfelt, and insightful, bringing to light so many thoughts that many of us have had as Christians. If you have struggled or are struggling with addiction or even if you are simply struggling to get by in life, I recommend this book. Read it, take it to heart, think of Christ's love for you and be changed. <br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-28625405268819191842015-09-17T20:45:00.002-05:002015-09-17T20:47:26.548-05:00Loving Your Neighbor and Living with Faith in a Hostile World (the Colson Way) - A review of a book by Owen StrachanI must admit, the tagline of this book got me. As a Christian, I know that this is an especially hostile world today. The only place so far I have had courage to speak out in faith against some of the travesties occurring in the world today has been on Facebook, and I've already gotten a lot of flack for that. At least on Facebook, I never have to see, talk to, or deal with any of these people again. They are faceless to me. But as a true Christian, I should engage in the public square. I should speak out and share my faith with others. But how? <br />
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The book <i>The Colson Way: Loving Your Neighbor and Living with Faith in a Hostile World</i> by Owen Strachan shows us an example of a man, Chuck Colson, who lived his life in politics and the public square and share his faith without fear. Mr. Colson worked under President Nixon and was implicated in the Watergate scandal. He was a born-again Christian after a life of wrong turns and bad decisions. Owen Strachan communicates Colson's story and shares points about how Colson's example can be valid to us today.<br />
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There were a couple of things I disliked about this book. First, it was very much an autobiography. Of course, I was expecting this, but it was difficult to get through the first several chapters that were all about Mr. Colson and didn't seem to have any applications to me as a Christian. Also, although I think that other Christians can serve as a model for how we can present ourselves in this world, our ultimate model should be Christ. I don't think that any person should be glorified, but God himself should be glorified. Maybe I missed the point. I don't know. But I couldn't get past the fact that this book about this normal, everyday human being was telling me how to be a Christian today. Shouldn't I get that from Christ?<br />
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One thing that I did like is that Strachan presented quite a few "gems" about how to present ourselves as Christians in the public square and what we may go through. This is my favorite, "The church is the true culture the brings light into all the world. To do so, we must often be a counterculture. We will often be oppossed, hated, and mocked. We will be persectured in small and great ways." Strachan reminds us of this, and he also reminds us that, as Christians, "we oppose evil wherever it is found in order that we might love our neighbors and lead them unto God. In this work, we are witnesses" (p. 180-181). <br />
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As a Christian, it is truly my goal to be a witness, to be in this world, but not of it, to be an Ambassador of Christ and share his love with the world. If that means standing against what is "popular" to profess what is right according to Christ, then so be it. <br />
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So, though there were some things I didn't like about the style of the book, overall the concept was great and it did bring to light what I already know. It is difficult to live in the world as a Christian, but I always remember that first and foremost I am a citizen of God's Kingdom, not of this world.<br />
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I received this book to review for free as part of the Book Look Bloggers program. I received this book in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own. For more information, <a href="http://booklookbloggers.com">click here</a>.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-13546514214724070082015-07-14T13:12:00.003-05:002015-07-14T13:12:31.311-05:00A Great Daily Devotional Geared at ChildrenI was given a free copy of the book <i>Bedtime Devotions with Jesus: My Daily Devotional for Kids</i> by Johnny Hunt through the Book Look Bloggers program in exchange for my honest review. <br />
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This book is great for young children. My 8-year-old daughter likes to read it with us each night. We haven't really discussed the versus a lot each time, but sometimes she and I will have discussions about what they mean in her life. Her little brothers saw that we were reading this book with her and wanted to join in as well. There are colorful illustrations on the pages that capture the interest of your children and each day's devotional is short so it's easy to fit it in before bedtime. As my daughter gets older, I think we will incorporate more into it. For example, we may actually go to her Bible and read the versus surrounding that devotional verse to put it more into context. We may encourage her to share her thoughts on the verse and how it applies to her life. We may also share our thoughts about how it applies to our lives. She also could memorize some of the verses that are discussed in the devotional as they are generally only a sentence or two long. There are so many different things you can do with this devotional for kids. It is a great conversation starter and a great way to introduce application of the Bible to the lives of children. If you are looking to expand your children's knowledge and application of the Bible, this is a great start.<br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-57632169246815785042015-05-28T12:45:00.000-05:002015-05-28T12:45:26.697-05:00Review: Motivate Your Child: A Christian Parent's Guide to Raising Kids Who Do What They Need to Do Without Being Told by Dr. Scott Turansky and Joanne MillerWhen I got the chance to review this book, I was going through a bit of a struggle with my daughter. We had given her chores to do, but she wasn't doing them consistently without being reminded. I thought that a book like this could help me get her to do that. As I read the book, I discovered that this book is more about helping your child find her conscience and listen to it so that she is motivated to do what needs to be done. As I read this book, I understood that my eight-year-old daughter may not quite be there yet, but there are things I can do to help her get there. Though I don't think I will take all the advice in this book, there are some good points. For example, parenting requires strategy. This is so true. You must think about what you are going to do before you do it, think about what you are going to say before you say it. You must think about how your children are watching everything you do and you are setting an example for them with everything you do and say. The chapters that I really like in this book have to do with spiritual development in your child. I read to my daughter from the Bible when I can, I take her to church, we talk about things that happen in the perspective of our being Christians. But I still feel that I need to do more. The chapters in Part 2 of this book explore how to expose your child to faith by practicing faith in your home. They explore how to help lead a child to Christ, how to talk about the Holy Spirit with your child, and how to help your child connect with the Bible. If you struggle in any of these areas, this book might help to give you some ideas of what to do.<br />
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As a little addendum to this post, though, I have to think about something the pastor of my church said regarding parenting books and magazines. Essentially, she said why do we need all these parenting books? Are we not good enough? All these books tell us is that we are not good enough? Will we ever be good enough? My answer is, no. But who are these experts to tell me what to do for my own child? They write these words down without ever having met my child or my family. So I am convicted. I have decided that I am not going to rely on the "experts" anymore for advice about parenting my child. The only experts I need are myself, my husband, and the Holy Spirit. I will be guided about what is right when it comes to parenting my child, and only I know that for sure.<br />
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So...no more reviews of parenting books from this blogger...I'll be going a different route.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-85457190573088111002015-05-05T13:37:00.003-05:002015-05-05T13:39:33.170-05:00An Adorable Bible for Little Ones!I received the book <i>Tiny Bear's Bible</i> by Sally Lloyd-Jones, illustrated by Igor Oleynikov by Zondervan Publishers for free through the BookLook Bloggers program in exchange for my honest review.<br />
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I had already reviewed a similar Bible book by different authors, <a href="http://countmyblessings1.blogspot.com/2015/01/little-bunnys-bible-review.html">Little Bunny's Bible</a> and my kids sure loved it! So I decided to take this opportunity to check out Tiny Bear's Bible. My boys loved this book. <br />
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The smiling, soft bear captures a toddler's attention right away! My 15 month-old, who is learning more and more words, saw the book and immediately said, "BEAR!" I told my 2 1/2 year old that since the bunny book was his, the bear book was for his brother. We sat down and read this book probably four times in one evening. The illustrations are so cute and each Bible story ends with a reminder for Tiny Bear about what this means for him and how this story shows God's love for him. For example, the story of "God Keeps Moses Safe" reminds Tiny Bear that "just like Baby Moses, we are always in God's care - He will love us and keep us - now and always, Tiny Bear!" The rhymes are cute and they sum up the stories well. Some of them are even a little humorous. My husband had a good chuckle when "The giant laughed - and then fell dead" after David said he would fight him. <br />
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This book contains several Bible stories from both the Old and New Testaments. The stories included are God Makes the Whole Wide World, God Promises to Rescue Noah, God Keeps Moses Safe, David Fights a Horrible Giant, God Protects Daniel in the Lions' Den, Jesus is Born, Jesus Stops a Scary Storm, The Lord's Prayer, The Friend of Sinners, and God Makes Jesus Alive Again. These story choices are a good summary for a very young child to learn more about God. I liked this book even better than Little Bunny's Bible and I definitely recommend it for your toddler! <br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-8273009647545866982015-04-12T21:58:00.002-05:002015-04-12T21:58:28.072-05:00Review: The Leadership Handbook: 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs by John C. MaxwellWhen I had the opportunity to review the book <i>The Leadership Handbook: 26 Critical Lessons Every Leader Needs</i> by John C. Maxwell, I thought this was a great book for my husband who is working to move up in the managerial world. So, I let him read it and in a little twist he is providing his honest review in exchange for this free book from <a href="http://http://booklookbloggers.com/">Book Look Bloggers</a>. So here is a review from Mr. B. :)<br />
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I found many helpful things in this book. Some of the helpful insights that Maxwell provided were:<br />
- Don't manage your time, manage your life. Maxwell writes about how you can't make more time. There's only 24 hours in the day and the best thing is to try to make the most of your time as a leader. Many people try to say things like, "I need to make time" or "I need to find the time", but these things are not possible because you still have the same tasks you need to do. It's more about taking the time to do the things you need to do. <br />
- Maxwell writes that people who manage themselves poorly undervalue themselves by doing what others want them to do. They put too much time into what other people think are important and not enough time and effort into what they think is valuable and important. This jives with me because of my own job where I am told that what I think is important isn't and I need to do something else. My time is wasted in many cases because I'm not as effective as I could be.<br />
- Maxwell adds that people also ruin their effectiveness by doing unimportant things. He gives a rating for things you need to do based on terms of importance and urgency that is very helpful to follow. <br />
- Maxwell says that people reduce their potential by doing things without coaching or training and basically just flounder through whatever it is they are doing. They aren't able to do things as well as they could if they would simply ask for help. They say you don't have to reinvent the wheel. If someone else knows a fast and effective way of doing something, why not just take their lead and make it work for you? They also say Rome wasn't built in a day so take your time to do what you need to do, don't rush into it.<br />
- Another key insight that I really liked was Maxwell's saying, "Don't send your ducks to eagle school." This basically means that each person was made a different way. Some people work better in groups, some as individuals. Don't try to give people things that they aren't good at. Challenge them, but not to do something that they just can't do. If you try to do something that you just can't do and you fail, give it up and do something that you can do and do it well.<br />
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In closing, there were 26 lessons in this book and above I only showcased a few. I'm sure that for leaders of all types they would read this book and find something that works for them and would help them to build themselves as better leaders. I endorse this book and challenge other leaders to learn and take from it what they can back to their organizations and I can almost guarantee that it would make the effectiveness higher and help those in the organization to be more likely to reach their potential.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-57580263604972760882015-03-26T14:03:00.000-05:002015-03-26T14:03:05.007-05:00Spring Craft - Fingerpaint FlowersWhen I looked up at the art wall and saw snowmen, turkeys, and Christmas trees, I knew it was time to do a spring time craft.<br />
For this simple craft, I just drew some stems with green markers and then let the boys go at it with the finger paints. This was Little K's first time really finger painting on his own. He ate the paints at first (don't worry, they are non-toxic of course!) but realized they did not taste too great and continued painting. T-Rex must cover the paper with paint. You almost can't tell that his are flowers any more, but that's ok! I love how they turned out and it was so quick and easy!<br />
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T-Rex's painting:<br />
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Little K's painting:<br />
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I would love to see crafts that you've done with your little ones! Feel free to share them in the comments!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-2430394737488611682015-02-24T13:04:00.000-06:002015-02-24T13:04:01.186-06:00Lessons I've Learned From My MotherIt's been a while since I've done a "Lessons I've Learned..." post. My mother just turned 60 on Friday, and we had a big surprise party for her. Though her silly family tried to make it a joke, my sister had put out slips of paper and they were to write something they loved about my mom. It was "60 reasons to love her". I thought this was a nice idea, and it got me thinking about lessons I've learned from my mother.<br />
So, the next installment in my series..."Lessons I've Learned From My Mother". Love you, Mom! <br />
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- Always have faith. It may sound cliche, but if God brought you to it, He'll bring you through it.<br />
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- Know how to have fun and laugh. It's important to be able to let loose sometimes!<br />
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- Every once in a while, some retail therapy is nice. Just don't overdo it.<br />
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- You are never too old for hugs from Mom!<br />
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- You may not be the best of friends with your children when they are young (especially when they are teenagers!), but you are still their mom. They still love you!<br />
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- It's very important to take some time for yourself once in a while. Whether that means that retail therapy or taking an hour at church every week to be alone with God, it's vital.<br />
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- Always be there for your kids. They may be grown up, but they will always be your babies.<br />
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Thanks for being there for me, Mom!<br />
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It's a question that we have probably all asked ourselves at some point in our lives. "What am I supposed to do with my life?" If we are Christians, we will also often ask "What is God's will for my life?" Author Johnnie Moore approaches these questions in his book <i>What Am I Supposed to Do with My Live?: God's Will Demystified</i>. Johnnie explains that God's will should not be difficult for us to find. In fact, we should not have to search for God's will at all. God's will is more about becoming who we are supposed to be. God fashioned us to do something, to have a purpose. God's will is this purpose. In his book, Johnnie addresses how our own will is at war with God's will, why "waiting on God" is not helpful in finding God's will for us, how to make decisions when presented with different paths, making a commitment and pursuing our dreams. Johnnie's book explores what the Bible says about God's will for us and confirms very much so what the pastor at my church has been teaching for years, as Johnnie Moore says, "The will of God is more about <i>who</i> you are than where you are or what you do. You don't find it, you <i>become</i> it."<br />
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I received this book for free from the Book Look Bloggers program (Thomas Nelson Publishers) in exchange for my honest review.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-55656396789641558622015-01-10T16:59:00.002-06:002015-01-10T16:59:27.123-06:00Little Bunny's Bible - A ReviewI had an opportunity to review Little Bunny's Bible by PJ Lyons and Melanie Mitchell through the BookLook Bloggers program. They provide free books to bloggers in exchange for an honest review. My opinions are my own.<br />
This books was published by Zondervan.<br />
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I was waiting to get an opportunity to review a Bible type book for toddlers, as the one we have is all paper so it's not really appropriate for my two-year-old as of yet. This book has many Bible stories and it is made of a board book material so it's great for my two-year-old and his little brother! My two-year-old was immediately impressed with this book. He said, "Bunny!" right away and now he won't even let me get my hands on it to look at it for a review! It has a soft cover with a cute bunny on the front. Inside are colorful painted illustration and rhyming text that provides a great summary of Bible stories in a way that will be interesting to toddlers. The stories included are the creation story, Noah and the ark, Daniel and the lion's den, the story of Jonah, the story of Jesus' birth, the parable of the shepherd counting his sheep, the miracle of Jesus feeding thousands, and the story of Jesus' death and Resurrection. I feel that these are appropriate stories to share with a toddler to introduce them to the Bible. My son enjoyed sitting on my lap and listening to the stories. He liked the pictures and pointed out things that he saw. This is a great book for toddlers! I highly recommend it! Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00186411982249155573noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7996161983959699278.post-51684931608294562562014-12-26T16:38:00.001-06:002014-12-26T16:43:16.046-06:00A Great Bible for Young Girls - Review of the Plush Bible Collection (NIrV) by Published by ZondervanI hope everyone had a wonderful Christmas! We had a great Christmas with the family. First, we opened presents at home. Then, we went to my parents' house where we opened presents with my parents and my two younger brothers. Then, we went to my mother-in-law's house and there were still more presents at her house! The kids definitely had no shortage of presents this year!<br />
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This holiday season, I was presented with the opportunity to review the Plush Bible Collection (New International Reader's Version) published by Zondervan Publishers. I was given a free copy as part of the Book Look Blogger's program in exchange for my honest review. <br />
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My 8-year old daughter's Bible was kind of small and it was falling into disrepair, so I figured what better time to give her a new one than now? She would love this Bible! I just knew it.<br />
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The Bible is packaged in a nice box, which keeps it safe until you give it to its intended recipient. <br />
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This Bible is the New International Reader's Version, which is great for children who have not been reading long or just need the Bible made more simple. My daughter is a great reader, but she said she likes it because there aren't "all those thees and thous" in this version. It also has a great dictionary with some key terms at the end, so if she comes across a term she doesn't know, it could be in the dictionary. My daughter said that she loves this Bible because, "It is sparkly, fuzzy, and pink!" What more could an 8-year-old girl want? I am looking forward to reading the Bible with her and she can't wait to show off her new Bible at Sunday School! <br />
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